Children's Play Day

Today is .. children's playday ... *sighs* .. is it too early to get drunk yet ?
So the grand place is filled with .. children.
Screaming children.

Now for the most unwomanlike statement I ever made.
Will even do so on more occasions.

I hate children.

All children.

I don't want children and if for some reason my hormones manage to fool me into thinking i do want them ...I'll probably be nutered before that happens ... and if for some reason i'm not ... no way in hell my child is going to be treated like a little prince or princess.
Its not a little prince or princess .. it's a child that needs to be taught HOW to behave because it doens't know that by itself !
Anyone saying that children have a way to deal with their own problems and issues, that is entirely true .. BUT .. they have no comprehension of moral , law , how to deal with strong emotions (aka hormones later in life) .. and anyone saying those things come by themselves is a moron that SHOULD be nutured for everyone's sake .. not in the least their potential offspring.
Because those things are important in teh world we live in, a basic set of rules on how people should conduct themselves towards others to make life as pleasant as possible for EVERYONE , not just you.



Let's see where it gotten other parents to treat their children like that.
I can quote either the Maury show , Jerry Springer and more these etcetera's .. Dr. Phil ?
Children are naturally egocentric. And you can't blame them for it, its just nature.
Why in the hell would anyone want to endorse that ?! Isn't that the entire epitomy of humanity ??? Self proclaimed masters of the world and nature ?
I say it's time to own up to that no ?! ... You have a responsability !
To your child , to yourself and to the people around you .. by having children you take on the responsability to see to it they are able to handle life .. that because if they for some reason will not become able to deal with life and its frustrations .. someone is probably going to get hurt , probably the child itself !

And that's something that pisses me off.
IN order to adopt (who in the hell would go through that effort if they are not truthfully wanting to have a child with the intention of raising it) you go through a lot of time , trouble and effort to do so and often you even get turned down.
But every average junky / criminal / who ever has the right to reproduce themselves at will !
We rather hold up a bible quoting it while we demonstrate in front of the abortion clinic ... how it is murder ... while we all scream murdered innocence when someone actually does get hurt all knowing full well that there are certain kind of people who should not ever raise children.
I'm not even talking moral as " they don't deserve to have such a blessing " .. well screw that they just are not able to raise them in order to make them stableminded adults because they themselves are not and such can't provide for an example.

Now I do understand that confirmation when doing somethign right works better then punishment when they do something bad .. but GAAAAWD ... most parents don't seem to be able to perform a mental exercise called NUANCE.
Confirming good behaviour doesn't mean you can't ever say 'no'.

Because this is what troubles me.
If a child doesn't ever hear that word ... boundaries, limiations.
You get what you see on the Springer show later in life.
Egotistic pricks and half-ass whores who think everyone is there to fulfull their needs and wishes. Someone who thinks problems will be solved for them and someone who has absolutely no idea how to handle dissapointment and frustration.

I happen to know a mother, with her parents who has two children and the father left.
REason doesn't matter .. but take one look (and listen) at the kid, then the mother ... and I can make an educated guess !
From the moment they enter untill the moment they leave ... screaming , kicking , yelling , writing on tables, knocking on tables, throwing things etc etc etc ...
I can't even name the times I just wanted to slap that child or just YELL "SIT DOWN NOW".. then the mother , twice.
" But sweety ... it's not always about you ... "
"Sweety why are you crying? "
" Sweety don't trhow that, people are talking"

He misbehaves.
They confirm it by giving it attention.
In a sickening sweet way.
What the hell are you doing ... ?
If he's like that now ... just imagine for one minute what an unenjoyable piece of shit he's gonna be later in life.

Ugh ..

Sickening.

If I'd been the owner of the establishment ...
I'd have shown them the door with the words " I hope to never see .. and hear ... you people again untill you learned how to raise your child "
and that from the first moment there was writing on the benches (oh hell yes you're gonna pay ! .. ), stuff flying through the room and kicking and screaming that disturbes other customers.
Just because those assholes seem to enjoy listening to that bulshit doesn't mean others do or will.

AU FUCKING CONTRAIRE

Someone please escort those people to a shrink !
A straight jacket !
Isolation cell for that little shit of an offspring.
A cattle tranquilizer !

Or someone .. please .. just tell those people to take their kid to the playground once in a while .. don't let it sleep during the day ... 8 year olds are not babies !!! they don't need to sleep during the day !!!! so the ycan't sleep in the night !!!! so they don't sleep in the night and are too tired in the day to even try and behave !!!
And then the cycle recommences ..... to everyones joy .. NOT